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I'm in a bit of a tricky situation. Has anyone ever had a relationship with one of their co-workers or clients? I'm not sure what to do. I've been dating one of my co-workers for a couple of weeks now, but we haven't told anyone. any suggestions?

You are so shallow power broker. The bad dancing was the deal breaker????!!!! I do agree with your advice though. However, I will say that if you decide to stay with her make sure to be discreet or your coworkers will talk mad schmack about your PDA.

I know all too well about this topic. My coworker got me pregnant last summer after an office happy hour turned happy 12 hours. Beware of the alcohol if you are dating because you may be more likely to get overly affectionate with this person in front of others. Which at a work function (even happy hour) is very inappropriate.

Thats wrong!

I've heard that line before

Back after popular demand. Here I am. So this is just getting trickier and trickier and stickier and stickier. We made out in the men's room in our building. The adrenaline was pumping and I have to say it was a lot of fun, but really really stupid. I don't know what to do. Usually I'm totally decisive, but this is really driving me nutty because it's just so much fun and such a rush and I need more of that in my life.

AmericanMan, I think you should test the waters in a context which is completely not-work-related. Take her to the park, or to a farmer's market. Do your best to focus on other things, and not talk about work.

If you can establish a working relationship outside of work, you'll have a much better chance of avoiding the inner-office drams.

That was good advice. Take her on a date and see if you guys can connect outside of the mens room.

Didn't you already take her to the bathroom? Maybe try the women's room next time, just to switch it up a little bit.

Keep it going, buddy. I'm routing for you and for it to all work out.

hahaha. I got in trouble one time in the bathroom, too. However, it was not at work. In fact, it was at my sister's Bat Mitzvah. I was at second base in the restroom of the hotel and everyone was looking for me to throw up on the chair during Hava Nagila. Finally my uncle found me and my ex in the stall. I tried to clean everything up, but I came out after five minutes of everyone searching for me with my shirt all wrinkled and a very loose tie. I was like "Let's rejoice and be happy, baby!"

I was fired once for an office hookup, I wasn't feelin the company and they felt likewise, so getting caught with my office hottie really pushed things over the edge.
The Friday night before my departure, after everyone had left for the bar, we were foolin around on the CEO's sofa. Just as things started to get hot, the CEO walks in with one of the VPs

"So Derek, is he in or is he out?..."

Lights on... Hottie shrieks.

Soooo worth it.

Fooling around on the CEO's sofa sounds amazing! Way better than the bathroom where you can get sliced open by all the dangerous soaps and paper towels and various items. Do you know, did the hottie get fired?

I married a coworker. But we started dating *after* we were reasigned to different projects. Best decision of my life!

oh my word you guys are silly