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Business Etiquette You Should Know
Subtle behaviors can make or break an important meeting, influence a first impression or impress a potential client.
By Susan Bryant | Monster Contributing Writer
What’s the difference between the rising star whose career is picking up speed and his counterpart who can’t seem to get the engine to turn over? Often, the star has mastered the nuances of business etiquette – the subtle but critical behaviors that can make or break an important meeting, influence a first impression or impress a potential client.
According to Hilka Klinkenberg, director of Etiquette International, a business etiquette firm, the basics of professional etiquette are really quite simple. First, understand the difference between business etiquette and social etiquette. Business etiquette is genderless. For example, the traditional chivalrous etiquette of holding the door open for a woman is not necessary in the workplace and can even have the unintended effect of offending her. In the work environment, men and women are peers.
Second, your guiding principle should always be to treat people with consideration and respect. Although this may seem obvious, Klinkenberg cites this basic decency as a frequent casualty in today’s workplace.
Here are a few of the specific dos and don’ts of business etiquette you are likely to encounter during your workday.
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Introductions
The proper way to make an introduction is to introduce a lower-ranking person to a higher-ranking person. For example, if your CEO is Mrs. Jones and you are introducing administrative assistant Jane Smith to her, the correct introduction would be “Mrs. Jones, I’d like you to meet Jane Smith.” If you forget a person’s name while making an introduction, don’t panic. Proceed with the introduction with a statement such as, “I’m sorry, your name has just slipped my mind.” Omitting an introduction is a bigger faux pas than salvaging a botched introduction.
Handshakes
The physical connection you make when shaking hands with someone can leave a powerful impression. When someone’s handshake is unpleasant in any way, we often associate negative character traits with that person. A firm handshake made with direct eye contact sets the stage for a positive encounter.
Women take note: To avoid any confusion during an introduction, always extend your hand when greeting someone. Remember, men and women are equals in the workplace.
Electronic Etiquette
Email, faxes, conference calls and cell phones can create a veritable landmine of professional etiquette. Just because you have the capability to reach someone 24/7, it doesn’t mean you should.
Email is so prevalent in many of today’s companies that the transmission of jokes, spam and personal notes often constitute more of the messages employees receive than actual work-related material. Remember that your email messages are an example of your professional correspondence. Professional correspondence does not include smiley faces or similar emoticons.
Faxes should always include your contact information, date and number of pages included. They should not be sent unsolicited – they waste the other person’s paper and tie up the lines.
Conference call etiquette entails introducing all the participants at the beginning of the call so everyone knows who is in attendance. Since you’re not able to see other participants’ body language and nonverbal clues, you will have to compensate for this disadvantage by communicating very clearly. Be aware of unintentionally interrupting someone or failing to address or include attendees because you can’t see them. And finally, don’t put anyone on speakerphone until you have asked permission to do so.
Cell phones can be a lifesaver for many professionals. Unfortunately, if you are using a cell phone, you are most likely outside your office and may be preoccupied with driving, catching a flight or some other activity. Be sensitive to the fact that your listener may not be interested in a play-by-play of traffic or the other events you are experiencing during your call.
Even if you have impeccable social graces, you will inevitably have a professional blunder at some point. When this happens, Klinkenberg offers this advice: Apologize sincerely without gushing or being too effusive. State your apology like you mean it, and then move on. Making too big an issue of your mistake only magnifies the damage and makes the recipient more uncomfortable.
Alexandra_Elsner
4 days ago
4 comments
I appreciate this article and it is very timely. We also need to be aware that proper etiquette with our grammar in emails & text messaging is essential as well. If one wants to be taken serious as a business professional then, speaking & writing properly is critical. Especially with clients. Even though they may have a casual approach to their messaging, professionalism goes a LONG WAY.
rickeelee
9 days ago
2 comments
When we need to stop and evaluate whether our gestures of consideration or thoughtfulness will be mis-interpreted as sexist or demeaning.......to either sex......we're all in trouble.
rich34232
15 days ago
606 comments
I always allow the situation to dictate the action.I find most people no longer want to shake hands as a way to greet one another.I do a half wave with a pause,if their hand reaches I reach for theirs if not it goes to my side.
Opening and holding doors,depends on the situation.A female in charge takes charge usually opens the door and closes it leading us in then out the door when the meeting is over.This has nothing to do with manners or being polite. It has more to deal with respect than manners.
I leave my cell phone in the vehicle when I am with any client.,They must know they are important.There must be no distractions on my part.
at1bag
16 days ago
10 comments
This is a very important topic in business. I show all manners in the presence of women period!Women play a very important role in the business world. I think you should apply proper etiquette when you around people period!
larryprg
18 days ago
62 comments
I don't care what this article says, I always open and hold doors for women. But then, I often do that for everyone. To me, it's just good manners to always put other people first. If a woman is offended by my manners, then I think she has rotten manners.
JohnKapcia
21 days ago
116 comments
Also DO NOT EVER answer your phone in the presents of another client.
JohnKapcia
21 days ago
116 comments
Empathy above all.
smile
2 months ago
106 comments
I guess us women needed a "note". Yesh! I think women in business all know how and when shaking hands is important. I actually practiced, so that I wouldn't been too soft or aggressive on the shake when I joined the business world.
lmatthewchristensen
2 months ago
36 comments
I think it is strange that chivalry is dead in the business world. Why is it contrary to the social environment? I think people, men or women, should just be grateful for someone providing a small act of service. I have an idea, how about people stop being so sensitive and let others be nice. It is sad in today's world that there are people who take a nice gesture and turn it into a demeaning act.
pcrasmus
2 months ago
6 comments
Etiquette is guidelines for interacting will everybody. The better you know each person you interact with, the more personalized (or officious) your dealings should be with them.
If a guy likes holding the door for me, I remember to let him. If someone doesn't think to, I think nothing of it.
HarrietAlison
2 months ago
222 comments
I feel women and men can be equal and the man can still open the door for a lady if he wants to. I see nothing wrong with that. and if they don't want to that's fine also. My office only has 3 people working in the am and 4 in the pm. My boss lady will read funny jokes/stories shfe gets on her email to us and Ishare some of mine with her. she and her husband are really easy to get along with and good sense of humor. I want to be taken seriously as a proffessional also and find it hard in an ofifce where there barely is anyone.
Sellerina
3 months ago
90 comments
I will say though...that I have a very social, young office, and it is easy to joke around, swear, etc. I often have wondered where to draw the line (for myself) in terms of being crazy (myself). I want to join in the fun but still be taken seriously as a professional.
Sellerina
3 months ago
90 comments
A little annoying that men have to be reminded that women are equal.